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He told me I liked it when it hurt

I never realized I experienced sexual trauma until I started listening to other women’s stories. Ten years ago, I remember one day after a workshop a woman stayed behind after one of my first Yoni Breathing cyphers in my then apartment with a bag of sex toys – true story! I was naive and asked

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Stop hurting other women. It only hurts everyone, plus you.

Monique is coming out talking about significant issues relating to women’s respect in the Hollywood-financial-realm. Two of her biggest complaints about patriarchal Hollywood (an institution historically known to disenfranchise women financially and sexually) is that: Oprah exploited her childhood trauma of incest and molestation allegedly for profit and viewership. she has not been paid appropriately

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Meeting Brother Cornell West

I was most embarrassed and shy when meeting, Dr. Cornell West, an emotion that doesn’t overtake me often. I was at a Bernie Sander’s campaign that I was attending to support this candidate’s message of running the country for working-class people!…such as myself. I wanted to go to this campaign because I’ve been quiet helping

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Abortion banned again…who really has the power?

The debate about abortion is silly. As a sexually empowered woman, using herbs like parsley right after intercourse is not a new practice for me to prevent pregnancy, and so far as a 32 year-old goddess, I have never been pregnant. The argument about abortion is not about when human life begins, it is about

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Is the ideology of Trump as president leading men?

I am not here to polarize the present-day extremes. But I am seeing this present-day political system differently. I feel inclined to share the symbolism of our leaders and what they represent. The role of the president is one that is sacred, it is a macrocosm to what we, the people want. A lot of

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Have you ever felt uncomfortable and didn’t say anything?

This has happened to me many times. Meeting someone and they get super close, super fast and you’re like, “Um, should I say something?!” Yes, me, who teaches sacred sexual confidence, ha! I believe the evolution of women’s self-righteousness is growing and it is causing the country to culturally shift towards respect for women’s personal

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Are we killing our own kind?

We need to stop killing our own kind. Nipsey was killed by someone in his own neighborhood. This article is about how my mission of women’s sexual empowerment almost died at the steak of women. A community I have attempted to build up since a decade ago. I admit that I didn’t know Nipsey Hussle’s

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The Demonization of Female Sexual Power

Women, equal to men, are inherently sexual beings. The nature of having genitalia, again whether male or female, is the emblem of our congenital nature. In some cultures, such as the ones in northern Africa and now parts of Europe and the UK women are being clitorally castrated, an antiquities practice, known as female genital

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Brainwashing is real – it’s called sex hypnosis

When I met my “baby daddy” he represented a real father to me. We didn’t have children together but each time we would make love for years on end he would tell me how much he wanted to get me pregnant. I remember the moment I first heard these words when we were in climax

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Are women too masculine?

Recently I’ve noticed lots of men complaining on YouTube saying women aren’t feminine anymore. They say that seeing a feminine woman is seeing a unicorn. They use images of white starlets from black and white movies who starved themselves thin before it was known that was an eating disorder. The unfortunate limitation of men is that

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Healing Sex Trauma: How the Refugees of Tibet do it!

It has been discovered and revealed that Tibetian refugees who have experienced torture, displacement, and forced conversions do not internalize their trauma. In fact, when interviewed by anthropologists Tibetian refugees do not actually have a concept of what trauma is since their mental protocol when confronted with distress is to lojong (mental training) which yields

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Female Jealousy: The Hidden Blessing & Why being a Bitch is Empowering

“There’s a special place in hell for women who do not help each other.”  -Madeleine Albright  It’s at no surprise that women are taking the lead in our present-day American culture. This is no season, but the beginning of a long overdue movement showcasing firsthand what really happens when women stand together! Unfortunately, female jealousy destroys

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Mother / Daughter Issues in the Patriarchal Paradigm

If the social norms of female-to-female dynamic in our modern day culture were ascribed by old-fashion patriarchal benefits, it would likely disbenefit women. Because the patriarchy represents white-male total authority, I could see why disadvantaging the natural tendencies of other group-parties, such as a women’s emotional intelligence being a form of intuition, is portrayed as

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Vaginal Laser (“Rejuvenation”) Surgery

The Red Table Talks have been very healing for me. I recently saw the one of Jada chatting with WIll’s ex-wife. That was powerful and very emotionally moving to witness!! I am so grateful for this series of tri-generational conversation. However, I believe the only reason women get “vaginal rejuvenation” which is laser surgery, is

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Sacred Excerpt: The Vaginal Voice: Reclaim Your Story (Available Soon!)

“Erotic fantasies are a waking dream, serving up clues to our individual psyches, allowing us to explore our sexuality. They stem from the very source of our creativity-the imagination-linking our conscious and subconscious worlds.” Zen Sex: The Way of Making Love, Phillip Toshio The surrender is the sweetest part. It’s amazing to melt into your moment

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